Reconciling assholes for nearly a decade.

American Women: angry, hostile, and selfish

I have this theory that American Women (especially White and Black) are angry and hostile.  I was trying to find some articles on this or at least articles comparing the attitudes of different women.

Especially younger women, GenX, younger than 40.

This is not necessarily a "women hating" post.  If I say that certain women are "angry", that does mean "I hate women".  It just means, that a particular group of women seem to be more hostile than other group.  And it could be location.  Maybe women in the South are more hostile.

You are nuts.

Here is a good example.  Watch the reality TV shows on MTV.

The Hills or My sweet 16 or whatever.

The women seem pissed off, defensive, angry.

This is the only thread I could find online, it got me started.

"There are a number of reasons: (1) Asian wives are devoted to their husbands and family; (2) Asian wives defer to their husbands, and thus there is a LOT less conflict; (3) some guys are such boors that no decent “Western” woman would want them; and (4) There are SO MANY American women who seem unable to appreciate their husbands or feel that they have a nurturing role.

I once read an article about how most American women made terrible marital companions. I think the “consumer culture” has a lot to do with it. Women are conditioned to think that they must have the best of everything, even just starting out. Go into a mall, and see how many men’s clothing stores there are in comparison to women’s clothing stores. The other thing is that so many American women don’t feel that a man’s feelings are important.

By the way, 67 percent of all divorces are initiated by women. And men in their 40s are feeling very uneasy about being served divorce papers–because it happens a lot, and right out of the blue? Why? Their wives think they can do better, and want to get back out into the “dating market” while they are still “looking good.”
Permalink Bot Berlin 
September 26th, 2009 3:57pm
Got turned down again, eh?
Permalink Aaron 
September 26th, 2009 4:21pm
Meh, TV Women tend to be that way.  Makes for better drama, and TV is all about drama.

Jeanie, in "I dream of Jeanie" was happy, eager, cute, and dressed in filmy scarves.  That's the 1950's view of femininity.  The 2000's view is more Cougar/MILF.
Permalink SaveTheHubble 
September 26th, 2009 4:31pm
You attract what you are.
Permalink Send private email sharkfish 
September 26th, 2009 6:24pm
> You attract what you are.

That can only be true for homosexuals.
Permalink Attila 
September 26th, 2009 7:36pm
If you can't find a good woman, there is somethin wrong with you.

Remember that gym shooter guy.  That's what some of you sound like.
Permalink Send private email sharkfish 
September 26th, 2009 8:35pm
Women, at least American women, have little tolerance for any man who has any self respect and/or character. They will, collectively and individually, discriminate against, oppress, and denigrate the same. They seem to only tolerate men who are base and weak.
I like women outside of the USA much better. They seem to like those same characteristics in men which American women despise.
My advice to men is to avoid all personal,professional,business, and social contact with American women. This strategy has both offensive and defensive characteristics. By doing the same, you will avoid being "surrounded and destroyed" by them, a defensive strategy. At the same time, there are many individuals and entities who, when observing that there are no men with character around to defend these women, will unhesitatingly attack the same (this is the offensive portion of this strategy.
A man who follows this strategy will be much happier personally and much more successful in his professional life.
Permalink Send private email C.V. Compton Shaw 
September 26th, 2009 9:09pm
What's the average weight of American women? 210lbs?
Permalink anon for this 
September 26th, 2009 10:21pm
Yeah, you are right about a lot of American women.

Where you got it wrong is thinking it's not true of other cultures as well.

The stuff about Asian women is a myth.
Permalink CC 
September 27th, 2009 12:30am
"If you can't find a good woman, there is somethin wrong with you.

Remember that gym shooter guy.  That's what some of you sound like."

Sharky has a point guys.  One of the biggest problem men have is moving on.  You need to make woman hunting a priority and move on at least 10 or more women a week.  Then in a month or two (after 40 to 80 or more women) you will usually get one that wants to give you a chance.

Seriously guys, men are "askers" and women are "choosers" that is just how it works.  The "choosers" have the power if you only go after one at a time.  You have to play the numbers and shotgun yourself out there.
Permalink ! 
September 27th, 2009 12:45am
Wow, there's a lot of yall who don't date much.  Maybe if you weren't douchbags you wouldn't be seeing so much of this side of women.  Spent my evening with a fun woman with a nice figure, drinking beer.  And I'm not talking about my wife.

If I can find one to marry and another to drink beer with, I suspect that it indicates that you're just putting out a vibe that irritates the piss out of women, rather than all women being like that.
Permalink Send private email Clay Dowling 
September 27th, 2009 12:48am
Nerds and Geeks just don't have game.

I honestly think nerds and techies are so f'ed up because a) they don't get laid, b) lack social skills to attract the opposite sex.  They turn their anger into ass-hole nerd attitude which causes them still more personal issues and allows The Man to control them.
Permalink :-) 
September 27th, 2009 12:52am
Just date asian women :)
Permalink Colm 
September 27th, 2009 7:49am
It's a very popular option among London geeks.

Me:  You mean you haven't seen Blade Runner?
Fit Chinese Girl in my Office: No, never heard of it.
Me:  You're bf will have it on DVD, it'll be the director's cut.

.... some time passes ....

Fit Chinese Girl in my Office: How did you know he have that?
Me: He mentioned Perl.
Permalink tbarker 
September 27th, 2009 10:13am
I have never dated 'typical' european women that much. Never seemed to have much trouble finding nice women from other cultures to be with, though I've had quite a few as friends. Dunno if I just have a taste for the 'exotic', or what. But that's where the natural attractions seem to lie. I ain't fighting it ...
Permalink eek-o-tourist 
September 28th, 2009 9:09am
What does this have to do with men at all?

If you could steretype,

Korean Women, Chinese Women, African Women, Ethopian Women, American Women White, American Women Black.

You might even go as far as to say that American Women tend to be angry and hostile.

Even google is on top it.

Google: "Angry Women"

first several hundred links are about "Angry Black Women"
Permalink Bot Berlin 
September 28th, 2009 9:45am
Note: how I never said that Angry == bad.
Maybe women in American are more expressive.  shrug.
Permalink Bot Berlin 
September 28th, 2009 9:45am

This topic is archived. No further replies will be accepted.

Other topics: September, 2009 Other topics: September, 2009 Recent topics Recent topics